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Thought for the Day: Adding Some Life Experience to Bring Gemara to Life

Do you know what a חבורה is? Until a few weeks ago, I knew that חבורה translates to "group". I have also heard of people learning in small groups to focus on a topic or sefer, like Mishna Brura. I think that a study group like that is also called a חבורה. So when my grandson asked if I knew what a חבורה was, I said, "Yes". He said, "Great! Then you can teach this to me and help me write it up!" and he handed me a packet of sources. It turns out that in this context, חבורה means that a bachur will delve into one point the gemara is making and research how some rishonim (sages from the time of Rashi and the Rambam) and acharonim (sages from the time of the Vilna Gaon and Chasom Sofer), and even more recent sages analyze and develop the ideas in the gemara. The only thing I could compare it to in my experience was reading science journals as a graduate student.

Ah. I acceded to his request (of course... I mean, he is my grandson) with one small change: Not "teach it to me", rather "We'll learn it together." He likewise acceded to my condition. Here's the thing, though: I never learned in yeshiva. I can learn, but I have never had any real exposure to that range of research. When I said, "we'll learn it together",  I mostly meant that he would teach it to me and therefore be able to write and present his חבורה. It has actually worked out quite well and I was able to help bring some clarity.

I didn't think I'd be able to use this experience for a TftD, because it really is delving into very fine technical points regarding one's responsibility for damages caused by a person's property. However, we developed one aspect that is relatively easy to express.

There are four basic categories of ways that people can cause damage, two of which are via non-living things: pit and fire. The category of בור/pit means anything that just sits there in a public place and shouldn't be there. Think potholes in the street. If someone actually jackhammers a hole in the sidewalk, that is certainly a בור. But leaving shards of glass is also a בור. The other non-living category is אש/fire. Basically anything that can damage and gets pushed around by wind and water is אש/fire. Throwing little glass shards into the air that then get blown into peoples' would be in that category. This חבורה is looking for things that are a cross between בור/pit and אש/fire. The classic case is someone who puts a fragile vase on a rooftop that gets blown off by a normal wind (that's the אש/fire part), then shatters and leaves a mess of broken glass on the sidewalk (that's the בור/pit part).

Here's the interesting thing, if your wall falls down and blocks the sidewalk, you have 30 days to clean it up. After all, it was unexpected and you need time. If you break a vase on the sidewalk, you have to clean it up; you made a mess, you need to clean it up. What about that vase on the rooftop? You didn't make a mess, the wind did. Is it like the wall? Nope. If it falls, then you are obligated to clean it up right away. Even though right now it isn't causing any problems. But any moment, you could be on the hook.

I said, "that's much worse." My grandson said, "it's bad, but why is it worse?" Finally! Life experience! I told him that many years ago, when his bubbie was pregnant with his mom (I won't say exactly how long ago, neither my wife nor my daughter would appreciate that, but long ago enough for her to have a son learning with his zeidy for his חבורה in 8th grade. המבין יבין) There was a problem with the pregnancy and bubbie had to be in the hospital for an unspecified amount of time until the doctors thought everything was ok or an emergency happened. They gave me a pager -- long before cell phones, a device that couldn't tell you anything but a phone number to call. I had this pager and there was only one reason it would vibrate -- to tell me there was an emergency and I had minutes to get to the hospital. I carried that pager for two weeks, till the doctors were comfortable. Baruch HaShem, mother and baby -- your bubbie and your mom -- were fine.

I, of course, was a wreck for those two weeks. Nothing was wrong, but I could get notified any moment that things were very wrong. Then he understood -- "Oh! Even if this guy needs to leave, he could be responsible for damages any moment! He is stuck! Ah... and now I remember a discussion about why the guy with the wall gets 30 days! Got it!" He got very excited and started writing. I am looking forward to seeing him present to his class in a couple of weeks.

Now if you want to know why that fragile vase has to be on the rooftop, and who put it there, and why this guy doesn't just take it down.... then you clearly don't understand gemara. Who would ask questions like that?!

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