Skip to main content

Thought for the Day: The Essence of the Torah? The Torah, the Whole Torah, and Nothing But the Torah

My wife, she should continue to live and be well and go from strength to strength (all needed just to be able to survive living with me), once had an IVP.  You can look it up, if you like, but all you need to know for this story is that it's a diagnostic procedure.  Diagnostic; not for treatment of anything, just to check out what's going on.  Diagnostic.  A few days later she noticed a painful swelling and reddening on her upper arm.  She called the doctor and he told her to get to the hospital quickly; where she stayed for three days.  It turns out one of the (not uncommon) complications is deep vein thrombosis -- an internal blood clot.  Those can be cause strokes and even be fatal; hence the rush to the hospital.

We asked why they hadn't told her about that, and they said it was in the release she had signed.  She didn't remember any such warning, so they showed us her signed release for the IVP.  Sure enough, the release did mention the possibility of thrombosis... in the third paragraph, after mentioning that another possible complication was death.  She just didn't pay much attention to "what else" could go wrong after that.

Shmos 32:34, on the heels of the "cheit ha'eigel" disaster, HaShem tells Moshe to relay to the nation that His agent will be personally escorting them from now on.  Rashi first comments: this is an instance where the "lach" is used instead of  "eilech" next to "dibur".  (One of those "grammar Rashi's" that people wonder if anyone learns).  That is followed by: His agent, which is to say, not HaShem (ie, HaShem is backing away from the Jewish people in response to that egregious sin).  Are you kidding?!  How can Rashi go from a seemingly trivial grammatical technicality to a revelation that Klal Yisrael was on the verge being cast away from the Creator, thus losing our whole reason for having been created?!  Couldn't he have given me some warning?  You know, "btw... pay attention to the next bit, it's really, really important!"  Throw me a bone!

The key word here is "seemingly".  Rashi isn't trying to pull one over on us; he is trying to teach us something glorious and astounding.  No verse, no word, no letter, no grammatical technicality is any more -- nor any less -- important and fundamental than any other verse, word, letter, or grammatical technicality.  Lest you think this is just mussar, it's encoded into halacha:  Even though a person hears the whole Torah [over the course of the year] with the congregation, he is [even so] obligated to read for himself the weekly selection, twice in Hebrew and once in translation, even [words such as] "ataros" and "dibon" [which, being place names, have no translation] (Shulchan Aruch O. Ch. 285:1)

Lest you think that's nice in theory, but surely you can recognize and discern that which is truly important without further training, my wife was in the emergency room for a kidney stone when she had that IVP.  Kidney stones are (I am told) among the most excruciatingly painful experiences a person can endure; worse (I am told) than labor.  Painful, very painful, but not life threatening.  The ache of the thrombosis, on the other hand, was(I am told) akin to an muscle ache after an overly vigorous work out.  Not so painful, but potentially debilitating or even fatal.

So you really think you can "just tell" the important from the critical?  Is that your final answer?  Maybe you ought to call a friend.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Thought for the Day: Pizza, Uncrustables, and Stuff -- What Bracha?

Many years ago (in fact, more than two decades ago), I called R' Fuerst from my desk at work as I sat down to lunch.  I had a piece of (quite delicious) homemade pizza for lunch.  I nearly always eat at my desk as I am working (or writing TftD...), so my lunch at work cannot in any way be considered as sitting down to a formal meal; aka קביעת סעודה.  That being the case, I wasn't sure whether to wash, say ha'motzi, and bentch; or was the pizza downgraded to a m'zonos.  He told if it was a snack, then it's m'zonos; if a meal the ha'motzi.  Which what I have always done since then.  I recently found out how/why that works. The Shulchan Aruch, 168:17 discusses פשטיד''א, which is describes as a baked dough with meat or fish or cheese.  In other words: pizza.  Note: while the dough doesn't not need to be baked together with the meat/fish/cheese, it is  required that they dough was baked with the intention of making this concoction. ...

Thought for the Day: What Category of Muktzeh are Our Candles?

As discussed in a recent TftD , a p'sak halacha quite surprising to many, that one may -- even לכתחילה -- decorate a birthday cake with (unlit, obviously) birthday candles on Shabbos. That p'sak is predicated on another p'sak halacha; namely, that our candles are muktzeh because they are a כלי שמלאכתו לאיסור and not  מוקצה מחמת גופו/intrinsically set aside from any use on Shabbos. They point there was that using the candle as a decoration qualifies as a need that allows one to utilize a כלי שמלאכתו לאיסור. Today we will discuss the issue of concluding that our candles are , in fact, a כלי שמלאכתו לאיסור and not מוקצה מחמת גופו. Along the way we'll also (again) how important it is to have personal relationship with your rav/posek, the importance of precision in vocabulary, and how to interpret the Mishna Brura.  Buckle up. After reviewing siman 308 and the Mishna Brura there, I concluded that it should be permissible to use birthday candles to decorate a cake on Sha...

Thought for the Day: אוושא מילתא Debases Yours Shabbos

My granddaughter came home with a list the girls and phone numbers in her first grade class.  It was cute because they had made it an arts and crafts project by pasting the list to piece of construction paper cut out to look like an old desk phone and a receiver attached by a pipe cleaner.  I realized, though, that the cuteness was entirely lost on her.  She, of course, has never seen a desk phone with a receiver.  When they pretend to talk on the phone, it is on any relatively flat, rectangular object they find.  (In fact, her 18 month old brother turns every  relatively flat, rectangular object into a phone and walks around babbling into it.  Not much different than the rest of us, except his train of thought is not interrupted by someone else babbling into his ear.) I was reminded of that when my chavrusa (who has children my grandchildrens age) and I were learning about אוושא מילתא.  It came up because of a quote from the Shulchan Aru...