Skip to main content

Thought for the Day: Lighting Shabbos Candles Early -- Different Approaches to Remediation

Long story short: I ended up at the "Rabbi's" table for a chasuna I attended recently. Waiting for the pictures to be finished and the dancing to start has never been more pleasurable. I don't want to be accused of just another name dropper, so I shall only mention that I was seated between two notable talmidei chachamim: R' Fuest, shlita, Dayan, Agudath Yisrael, Chicago; and R' Zucker, shlita, Rosh Kollel, Chicago Community Kollel. I mention them (besides to impress you), because of the fascinating discussion I had the opportunity to observe. (I shall not be writing "shlita" in what follows, but I thought it each time I wrote a name.)

R' Zucker had gotten a question from a woman one erev Shabbos. She had somehow been very efficient that erev Shabbos and finished her preparations a bit early. She was thrilled to be able light candles like a mentsh without the usual rush and "on condition that I can still do the stuff I have to finish." The problem was, she had been a bit too early; before פלג המנחה. Whoops. As we all know, candles are supposed to be lit only after פלג המנחה. R' Zucker received a frantic call from her... what now? The Rosh Kollel posed the question to the table.

I, fortunately, had the good sense to keep my mouth shut. R' Fuest answered immediately, "She lights again. Lighting before פלג המנחה is nothing." I asked a clarification question: With a bracha? Answer: Yes, the the lighting before פלג המנחה was nothing. R' Zucker noted that there is an opinion that one can light פלג המנחה. R' Fuerst answered, "Yes, the פרי מגדים says that -- after the fact -- one has fulfilled the mitzvah by lighting any time after mid day, but the halacha is not in accord with his opinion." R' Zucker concluded that he had told the woman to have her husband light.

Let's analyze. Both poskim had all the same facts:
  1. One is not allowed to light Shabbos candles before פלג המנחה.
  2. There is a פרי מגדים that allows lighting from mid-day.
  3. The halacha is not in accord with that opinion of the פרי מגדים.
  4. Shabbos candles still need to be lit with a bracha
The first thing to appreciate is (again) how important it is to have a rav -- a single rav -- to whom you can address your halachic questions. Both solutions were correct (obviously), the dayan and the rosh kollel simply weighed the various plusses and minuses and came to different conclusions. You get this same feeling when learning a Mishna Brura and Shulchan Aruch on a particular topic, but what thrill it was to see that paradigm played out live and in person.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Thought for the Day: אוושא מילתא Debases Yours Shabbos

My granddaughter came home with a list the girls and phone numbers in her first grade class.  It was cute because they had made it an arts and crafts project by pasting the list to piece of construction paper cut out to look like an old desk phone and a receiver attached by a pipe cleaner.  I realized, though, that the cuteness was entirely lost on her.  She, of course, has never seen a desk phone with a receiver.  When they pretend to talk on the phone, it is on any relatively flat, rectangular object they find.  (In fact, her 18 month old brother turns every  relatively flat, rectangular object into a phone and walks around babbling into it.  Not much different than the rest of us, except his train of thought is not interrupted by someone else babbling into his ear.) I was reminded of that when my chavrusa (who has children my grandchildrens age) and I were learning about אוושא מילתא.  It came up because of a quote from the Shulchan Aruch HaRav that referred to the noise of תקתוק

Thought for the Day: Love in the Time of Corona Virus/Anxiously Awaiting the Mashiach

Two scenarios: Scenario I: A young boy awakened in the middle of the night, placed in the back of vehicle, told not to make any noise, and the vehicle speeds off down the highway. Scenario II: Young boy playing in park goes to see firetruck, turns around to see scary man in angry pursuit, poised to attack. I experienced and lived through both of those scenarios. Terrifying, no? Actually, no; and my picture was never on a milk carton. Here's the context: Scenario I: We addressed both set of our grandparents as "grandma" and "grandpa". How did we distinguish? One set lived less than a half hour's drive; those were there "close grandma and grandpa". The other set lived five hour drive away; they were the "way far away grandma and grandpa". To make the trip the most pleasant for all of us, Dad would wake up my brother and I at 4:00AM, we'd groggily -- but with excitement! -- wander out and down to the garage where we'd crawl

Thought for the Day: What Category of Muktzeh are Our Candles?

As discussed in a recent TftD , a p'sak halacha quite surprising to many, that one may -- even לכתחילה -- decorate a birthday cake with (unlit, obviously) birthday candles on Shabbos. That p'sak is predicated on another p'sak halacha; namely, that our candles are muktzeh because they are a כלי שמלאכתו לאיסור and not  מוקצה מחמת גופו/intrinsically set aside from any use on Shabbos. They point there was that using the candle as a decoration qualifies as a need that allows one to utilize a כלי שמלאכתו לאיסור. Today we will discuss the issue of concluding that our candles are , in fact, a כלי שמלאכתו לאיסור and not מוקצה מחמת גופו. Along the way we'll also (again) how important it is to have personal relationship with your rav/posek, the importance of precision in vocabulary, and how to interpret the Mishna Brura.  Buckle up. After reviewing siman 308 and the Mishna Brura there, I concluded that it should be permissible to use birthday candles to decorate a cake on Shabbo